I once dated a woman for two and a half years, we had a lot of fun together. I loved her dearly and she loved me as well, we lived together and had rescued two cats together, however the relationship was doomed from the beginning.
She’d been dating a man for four years when her and I hooked up at a party. I knew she was cheating on him with me, and this was very emotionally unattractive. However in that drunken moment I was going in. She ended things with him and pursued me with a vengeance. I held out on making her my girlfriend knowing I shouldn’t date a cheater, unfortunately I gave in and after four months we became official. Two and a half years later she left me to be with another man.
This is a fundamental lesson we can all learn, if a woman is willing to cheat on her current boyfriend with you, she will be willing to cheat on you with the next man that catches her eye. Now if a woman is willing and wanting to cheat, she will. If you find you’re the man she wants to do the cheating with, then it’s up to you if you want to participate in that behavior. I will not say it is neither right nor wrong, but it’s wrong to think that her lack of commitment and fidelity will somehow resolve itself once she tastes your magic stick.
It’s estimated that between 10 to 30 percent of all relationships are started by one person poaching the other from their current partner. According to a recent study[i] men and women who left their old partner for a new one reported feeling less satisfied with their new partner, showed lower signs of commitment, and are constantly on the lookout for romantic alternatives.
Do you want to date a woman that is constantly looking for something better and is therefore less satisfied with her current partner? These are the type of women you get when you go out with the mentality of “just cause there is a goalie on the field doesn’t mean you can’t score.”
You should always pay attention to what a woman does, it doesn’t matter if she claims she was over him before she left him and it was only a matter a time. A woman who is not strong enough to end her current relationship before she starts a new one, will make your life a living hell before she leaves you for her newest relationship.
Strong, confident men do not enter into long term relationships with weak unfaithful women, go ahead and bang her brains out, but do not open you heart to a woman who will just as quickly open her legs to another man when things aren’t going perfect.